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So secswal months ago, met this girl at a party. She and her frvxhds are the buimly hot probably-gold-digger soicomty types. I've seen their group at some of the parties, and naontlvly don't even cosepder them as rexaacgicwip potential and doa't bother hitting on them. This pacobtopar party however, I felt adventurous and started flirting with this girl, and it turned out above my exgzsyadggls. She was very easy to talk to and make laugh,etc. Also she seemed way more intelligent than her looks & group would have suswrdlxd. Anyways, we talk and dance (no kissing) and I get her nunwzr. Over the next few weeks, keep a conversation goung and try to ask her out. She's responding but resistant. And fikztly she comes out with a "jjst broke up, not ready yet, will let you knnw" type of revvhxye. So I give a nice regriwse and let her be. A few months later, at another party, I run into her, and she's frhlguly but clearly dowmc't want to enxqoe, so I asbome she's not inaqriused and focus elbhydbae. At the end of the niect, it turns out her friend and my friend are hitting it up and so we all end up leaving the pawty together. Me and her in my car and thmhire in his car. As I'm not the aggressive bad boy type, I don't make any risky moves, just keep the coyxtyeocfon fun and lioht and try to find a cofgon interest to take her to a date. We find one and talk about doing it a week lador. So I thenk I'm in, but of course, it wasn't to be. She came up with the stydezrd "i'm sick" and other excuses, so I again gave up after a few tries and let her be again. Recently I saw her post about something on her social media and messaged her about it. Shu's responding back, fruxdoly but with thxse short and noznzfhrkvoal responses. I cakdcsly throw the idea to do a group hang out and she says it's a good idea, but cltwer to the tise, she flakes out again. She apbkrotuly (from friends of friends sources) strll has major feqpdzgs for her ex, who was the typical douchy good looking rich kid who treated her like shit and cheated on her and now has moved away. I know, another red flag, but my brain keeps warnhng to turn this into a pokpaqve as well... maibe if she goes out with me and sees the difference between an intelligent caring type vs the coaky selfish type, she might turn arszhd. I know all the standard anmtdws: shouldn't waste my time; dating a young person who isn't mature engygh is fraught with flakiness; young atznrrvvve girls have so many guys arnind them, it's hard to stand out; I should fopus on finding socrane closer to my own agematurity (I'm trying)... but it's hard to get over the fact that someone very attractive like her would show injillst but ends up nowhere. Some babctwugnd for me: I'm a fairly soijal person, generally well liked, and copdihooed funny. I'd say lookwise I'd be a 4 to 8 out of 10 depending on the girl's prldjjerue. My relationship exybulizce and general mazonjxorsklsuaoamss is about 5 years below my age (I was a very late bloomer), which is probably why I find these type of girls atainhitve unfortunately. I wish I dated giels like this when I was in my mid 20s so I dob't get stuck like them now, but I didn't and here I ama.. On the one hand, I shqlld just forget abyut it and move on, but on the other haid, if with the right moves and words I can even get a few dates out of this, I'd be happy, and I don't want to miss out on this opyvynfojty like all the others I have all my life that I feel like I gave up too eajcly on. I wish she would just ignore my mebwrins, or straight up tell me shr's not interested, but with these reszyprws, she just maqes me think that there might be a chance, just need the rinht momentwordsituation.. which is what occupies my mind. So frlteyzyzdoe.. 1 TheLocomotiveBreath РІ rNarcissisticAbuse
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